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Gambling definition scared of the dark

Postby Kajitaur В» 06.01.2020

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Hello dear gamblers in recovery, recovered gamblers, friends or family of someone who is gambling,. The time has come for me Addiction that not only robs me from money, but time, energy and health as well, makes me underperformer and underachiever, with 1 word: loser! My gambling has been very active in the past 3 years. Things began escalating at the end of when I started increasing my bets and you know the rest My very first sports bet was when I was only 14 and you can guess: I won!

I was betting during high school but nothing serious and not so frequent. After graduating from college and getting a job then things began to escalate.

Initially all was going great. Nice job, nice salary, I was saving money and enjoying the life to the fullest. I would bet only occasionally because I was so busy working I couldn't find time. Fast forward to horrible year for me!

It was completely unexpected. We went separate ways. I found my escape in gambling. This resulted in 9 months of hell I joke with myself I went through 9 circles of hell and now I can be free and the hell is indeed over starting from today! In mid-August I made a decision to stop gambling once and for all!

I extremely highly recommend that every gambler who wants to quit gambling read this book. It will strip away all illusions about gambling and help you big time! Since reading this book and the decision to stop I had several relapses in September, each relapse was smaller and smaller but they were still happening!

Unlike in the past where I would feel angry or pissed off because I lost my money and can't bet anymore, today I feel great that the illusion and pain are finally over! I'm so calm and relieved right now because there will be no more pain due to gambling! I closed my accounts with bookmakers I bet, I should probably terminate my Neteller and Skrill accounts but decided to leave them, will use them in future not necessarily to gamble but to do online shopping etc.

My thoughts on gambling: It's a losing and zero-sum game! Huge illusion! Even if someone is winning in gambling, it's just a matter of time before that person goes broke. I know for a fact it's going to happen. So many times I would win x5, x10, x30 of deposited amount only to lose it with time. In the end I have lost not only money but time which I will never get back! My gambling "career": I have gambled on almost everything: sports betting my main activity , live blackjack, live roulette, electronic roulette in casino, online poker etc.

I have never played slots because I know they are rigged as hell as well as other listed stuff. I see many people on this forum are addicted to slots. That's probably the worst thing to get addicted in terms of gambling though there is no worst and best gambling addiction. It is all an illusion!!! The same goes for my sports betting: I think if I choose the right game to bet on, I have better chances to win. Ironically I think I'm a good sports bettor but lack of discipline, patience, chasing losses - all this kills my bankroll.

Conclusion: Gambling is illusion, suffering, misery, endless vicious cycle unless we end it!!! Quitting gambling is not that difficult as it seems. It's a mental trap, it's all in our brains! In order that we stop gambling we need to remove our desire to gamble, that's the key!!! With the right frame of mind everyone can quit gambling for life!!!

Don't believe if anyone tells you quitting gambling will be very difficult because you will remain in the gambling trap! Yes, to quit gambling you need some hard-work and discipline but that's how success is achieved in life, right?

I want every person reading this post to know that they can all quit gambling! If you are sports bettor like me, you are not obliged to bet the game if it is on TV!!! If you are online poker player, stop playing on poker sites they will take your money with their bots, super users and rigged RNG. If you are online slot player, quit immediately! You are playing against computer code written by some programmer, you will never ever make money and you probably know it! If you are playing live roulette, live blackjack, live baccarat quit as well: odds are against you and you will lose in the long run guaranteed.

In the long-term the math laws will do their job and wipe out our bankrolls!!! How to quit gambling: I'm by no means trying to act like a smartass but since I've read the book I mentioned above it has helped me a lot to see the gambling for what it is: an illusion! Gambling is not a genuine pleasure!! Addiction forces us to gamble even when we don't want to! Doing something you don't want to will make you unhappy over time, agreed?

Those who have been quitting gambling and always returning with bigger relapses than previous ones I'm afraid might have been quitting gambling the wrong way: by sheer force of will!

I have tried to quit gambling like this in the past and always returned to my addiction. However, this time is different! My approach to quit gambling and the information I gained this time is helping me quit gambling despite relapses during September. There is no solution that works for every gambler in the world! However, I think quitting gambling should be done this way: realize and admit that you have a gambling problem crucial step , read books on gambling addiction and quitting, see the gambling for what it is - an illusion and our worst enemy, remove all illusions and delusions regarding gambling, realize that there is no fear if you quit gambling and that gambling does not need to be substituted with other addiction, remove the fear that you can't live without gambling or what are you going to do if you quit You can!

Remember the non-gambling part of your life? Why not go back to this lifestyle again? You will be certainly much happier than the gambling lifestyle you're leading right now.

Once all illusions, delusions and fears are beaten you will be in the right frame of mind and be able to say goodbye to this devil's addiction. Relapses might occur along the way but stay strong and I assure you, you will become a happy non-gambler again!!! Another useful advice: don't try to stop thinking about gambling forcefully! It is ok if thoughts about gambling cross your mind, in such occurrences smile and say to yourself "Yupiiii, I'm a free man and I don't have to ever gamble again!

I must not gamble! The reason for this is: the more you try to resist something the more likely it is going to happen. If you quit gambling forcefully with a thought that must not gamble, over time this will become an itch that you simply gotta scratch and one day you will scratch it and feel so awesome that you've scratched the itch.

Unfortunately this means that you have again fallen into the gambling trap! To quit gambling successfully, once again I will repeat: realize what gambling is - an illusion and our worst enemy, gambling is not our friend and we don't need it!

Simply put: when we were kids we used to believe in Santa Claus but once we learned that Santa Claus does not exist in reality we can never be fooled again to believe in Santa Claus existence. So what I'm trying to say is: once you understand how the gambling illusion and the gambling addiction work, you will be able to quit gambling and your soul will be able to find its peace and happiness! The bottom line: We got this people, let's do it!

We can beat gambling addiction. There are no excuses and reasons why we should not quit gambling. All reasons to quit gambling are on our side: much happier life, much more free time for ourselves, friends and family, no more lying, no more deceiving and sneaky games, no more hiding, no more shame, regret and guilt, no more terrible worker, no more underachiever, no more low on money all the time, no more life of a loser!!!

The list is endless. Problems created by gambling can't be solved by gambling, simple as that! Gambling is not fun and sexy as it is portrayed in the media and advertised everywhere. Realize this and you will never ever fall for this trap again! All brainwashing about gambling that has been done to us must be removed and we will be able to quit gambling for good!

Please change your view on gambling and you will see how easy is to quit gambling! Para siempre! I wish exactly the same for every problem gambler. I hope you will find my post motivational as well.

I will be glad to see your replies and answer to them if they contain question. I'm a problem gambler in recovery. Until I didn't know I had gambling problem.

I was not in denial, I just didn't think what I did was a gambling problem behavior. When your friends, family, work or anything else suffers due to preoccupation with gambling you have a problem gambling. Even if you are winning you still have a gambling problem. There is no such thing as controlled, disciplined, responsible gambling! My every gambling session would start like this but then spiral out of control with time.

It's just a matter of time before addiction takes over, know this! I will stop here because I think it is enough. I did enjoy writing this huge post. I hope many people will find it helpful.

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Postby Voodoora В» 06.01.2020

One day at a time. Para siempre! Gambling is a diverse activity, so different types of gambling addiction exist as well.

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Postby Fetaxe В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Dum В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Gorg В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Daikus В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Mimi В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Mosho В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Tojajas В» 06.01.2020

Accepting and forgiving. This month is looking successful My own thoughts become distorted rationalizations coming from the voice of the addiction I'm looking at what I said I would do in the past but rarely if ever did

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Postby Gasida В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Zulujar В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Maushicage В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Kigar В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Mazuktilar В» 06.01.2020

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Postby Vudogami В» 06.01.2020

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