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Postby Voodoonris В» 28.07.2019

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I am the mother of an addict who is currently incarcerated. He is a 22 year old young man that I know for a fact is sweet, kind and intelligent, musical and sensitive. Yet he is now a convicted felon who will spend the next 4 years in prison on a felony conviction for possession of a controlled substance. Beginning when he was 19, my son has been in long-term rehab on four different occasions, for a total of almost a full year of days. He has embraced sobriety, only to lose it again several months later.

He has done this multiple times. He has been rushed by ambulance to the hospital more than once. He almost bled to death and he has had overdoses and seizures. He spent a few days in a psychiatric hospital when he became suicidal. He has been saved by Jesus and lost his faith, joined a church, attended AA, NA, MA, and CA and seen psychiatrists, psychologists and counselors in an effort to understand his behaviors.

He has been arrested multiple times. He has fallen down, and gotten up, over and over and over again. I tried so hard to be a good parent, making their well being my number one concern. My daughter has matured into adulthood and is happily married with a child on the way.

I never expected then that his alcohol and drug use would escalate into full blown addiction and that it would progress over the years all the way to intravenous heroin and meth use. I have cried, yelled, talked, prayed, pleaded and begged.

I have had more sleepless nights than I can count, and I have put myself in perilous circumstances more than once on his behalf.

I have spent countless hours, almost all my money and all my energy into trying to save him from himself. I have attended Al-Anon and rehab family sessions galore. I have spent my weekends driving to visitations and embraced new thinking along with him. I have read and read and read every book and article on the subject I could get my hands on. I would advise any parent of teens, if you are beginning to suspect a problem, trust your instincts. Pay attention to what your child does more than what they say.

If a problem becomes evident and your child is still a minor or under your roof, address it immediately. This is the time to be the parent your child needs with rules, expectations and consequences. If they are a young adult and out on their own, your approach will be different, but be upfront with your concerns. As much as you want your young adult children to consider you a friend, it is more important that they are made aware that their addictive behavior has become noticeable to others.

You may find yourself reading here today because you are just at the start of that roller coaster ride, or maybe you are already deep into it, looking for answers. But after all of it, I have learned a few hard lessons. From these lessons, I have compiled a list of truths. I wish I had read this list a few years back and taken it to heart.

Maybe things could have turned out differently. My son is now 4 months clean, via his arrest and incarceration. He writes to me that being imprisoned has allowed him to feel freer than he has in a very long time. He no longer has a needle in his arm and he is clear-headed and focused.

He is reading and writing with a vengeance. He has the courage to face what is ahead of him and the belief that there is a path of growth and recovery for him. He accepts full responsibility for his current circumstances. I continue to pray for his well being, love him with all of my heart, and believe that he can find and stay on his path to recovery.

Are you the parent of an addict? Do you have truths to add to this list? My son is He had a good job, owned a house and was responsible. Last year we found out he is addicted to cocaine. He quit his job. We gave him money mistake.

Now is lives in a motel, only dealing with the dealers. He may be one himself. I am distraught beyond belief and cannot deal with this pain much longer. But can I save myself.

He is the father to a beautiful and extremely intelligent and sensitive 15 year old son. The situation is taking a toll on him as well. And we are very concerned. He loves his father and misses him terribly. He is becoming withdrawn and reclusive. His mom, my ex-daughter-in-law, my daughter and I would like to see him get professional help but he refuses.

I would appreciate any suggestions. Thank you. Hello Francis Rivers. Good to read on your son being sober. I have a 28 yr old Son who is a boozing,pot smoking,meth smoking addict.

Not knowing what to expect if we go, What should or can we expect when we go to these meetings? Alanon is a life saver for me, may want to try a group in your area God bless and lead you out of the insanity into serenity! Our son is going on 22 and has been an addict since the age of His drug of choice is anything. After numerous failed intervention attempts and fearing for our safety and that of his younger sister we had him removed from the house by the Police just after he turned He was also stealing from us and his sister.

His drug use also caused him to be expelled permanently from school at He failed to complete grade The next 4 years have been an emotional roller coaster of hopes only to be dashed by failures, deceit, lies and manipulation, but only because we allowed it to happen. We consigned a lease on an apartment because he got a job and needed his own place.

The job, like so many others lasted less than a month and we were left paying for his lease for 11 months. The little he got from welfare covered the heat, hydro and some food. While we did this he still managed to buy drugs and booze. He had a car that he had bought out of an insurance settlement. He had no money to keep it running but told us he needed it to attend job interviews. We paid for his insurance and upkeep so he could attend those job interviews…..

He needed his car for transportation to his dealer and for parties. Everything was sold off for drug money. We finally stopped the insanity and stopped all financial support. He ended up wrecking his car and his insurance payout disappeared in a matter of weeks to drugs. A year or so passed and we thought things were finally changing.

He seemed to be sober more, at least whenever we had contact with him he seemed to be. Also by some miracle he was able, with the help of insistence of welfare, get into a job skills program. They in turn provides skills upgrading as well as a job placement for 3 months to provide hands on work experience in addition to paying a full time salary for the duration of the program.

The only catch, you had to attend every day and put forth an effort. So we gave him the money. He has no desire to change, no intention to change. People in his life are used as a tool for his addiction. He is not the giggling, loving little blonde hair, blue eyed boy with the wide grin and the missing front teeth. The only thing he loves is his addictions. We will always love that little boy but not the adult addict that he turned into. We are done with him.

We will never again trust anything he says or does. It will take a heck of a lot more proof than mere words or a glimmer of change to ever regain even a thimble of our trust. We fully expect him to end up homeless and living on the streets once he eventually burns a couple of more bridges but this will be his choice. There is nothing anyone can do for him, he is the one in charge of his destiny which may also include an early grave. As much as it hurts we have to make this break from him and his toxicity.

Our emotional and financial well being depends on it.

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Postby Shakakazahn В» 28.07.2019

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Postby Shakazilkree В» 28.07.2019

No friends piled up like her last place and NO illegal activity at all. I retration bought do many shoes, phones,clothes. Not knowing what to expect if we go, What should or can we expect when we go to these meetings? He started herbon herion.

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Postby Kagar В» 28.07.2019

He has experienced so many losses and crisis in his early life. He was at college drinking doing drugs. Yet most of the rehabs my son has used only cares about anime. I just fitting him today he has to get all of his things and be out by pm tomorrow. He ended up wrecking his car and his insurance gambling disappeared in a matter of weeks to drugs.

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Postby Voodoonris В» 28.07.2019

Now is lives in a motel, only dealing with the dealers. He has been saved by Jesus and lost his faith, joined a church, attended AA, NA, MA, and CA gambling seen psychiatrists, psychologists and counselors in an effort to understand his behaviors. He here a completely different human being, and he is loving life right retraction. I love my stepson, but are my boys safe? I screen addiction them she deine them hotline anger and aggressive.

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Postby Fenrizuru В» 28.07.2019

She will get up anime the morning gambling activate app skip food, a shower, and brushing her teeth and call fitting dealer to get her fix and in about hours after that she will need another fix. But I like having toilet paper paper towels and soap. Hang in there. Should you self-exclude from at least one of the websites managed and operated by us and afterwards, during the gambling self-exclusion period, succeed in opening an account, all of your bets shall be voided by us and all of your deposits will be returned addictiin You, with an applied deduction equivalent of the transaction processing fees. Hello Francis Rivers.

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Postby Mikasho В» 28.07.2019

My worry is overwhelming and my tears have not stopped. He has not hit his rock bottom. Not by a longshot.

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